Skip to content
Who's In

Everything  /  What not to do

Applying It to Everyone

Inconsistency is the most common cause of attendance grievances in small businesses, and it usually starts as kindness.

What not to do

Most attendance disputes in small businesses are not about the rule. They are about the rule being applied to one person and not another.

How it starts

Someone reliable is late and nobody mentions it. Someone else is late and it is noticed.

A long-standing employee gets flexibility that a newer one does not.

A return-to-work conversation happens for the person whose absence is annoying, and not for others.

Leave is approved quickly for one and sits unanswered for another.

Each decision is individually defensible. The pattern is not, and it is visible to everyone except the person making it.

Why it is dangerous beyond unfairness

Inconsistent application is the evidential core of a discrimination claim. The question is rarely whether a rule exists; it is whether it was applied differently to this person.

And the difference does not have to be intentional. It has to be demonstrable.

Which means a record of who was asked what, and when, is your protection as much as anyone's.

The practices that keep it consistent

Return-to-work conversations after every absence, for everyone. Selectively applied, they are a signal of suspicion; universally applied, they are routine.

One channel for leave requests, with a stated response time.

A written policy, however short, so the rule exists outside someone's judgement.

A record of refusals as well as approvals.

One person, or a stated rule, for discretionary decisions, rather than whoever is asked.

Where discretion is legitimate

It genuinely is, and a small business that removes all of it becomes a worse place to work.

The test: would you extend the same latitude to someone you like less?

And: could you explain the difference in terms of the situation rather than the person?

Record the reason when you make an exception, which is a sentence and which makes it defensible.

The audit worth doing

Once a year, look at who was asked for evidence, who had a return-to-work conversation, whose leave was refused.

Check it against the obvious characteristics — who is newer, older, part-time, has caring responsibilities, has a health condition.

A pattern you find yourself is a problem you can fix. A pattern someone else finds is a claim.

The honest difficulty

Small businesses run on relationships, and relationships are not uniform.

The fix is not to pretend they are. It is to keep the process uniform and let the relationship show up in tone, support and flexibility that is offered to everyone.

Record the reason for an exception

One sentence, and it makes discretion defensible.

Small businesses run on relationships and should keep some flexibility.

The risk is not the exception; it is the unexplained exception.

Write down what was agreed and why, at the time.

Then the question "why did they get that and I did not" has an answer about the situation rather than about the person.

Connect policy to configuration

The practical choices behind this note can be compared with this professional-services case. Keep the written purpose in control of the setup, enable only data needed for that purpose and review the result with affected employees.

Independent reference

For an external point of reference, see the Equality and Human Rights Commission. Its material helps distinguish consistent process from identical treatment where equality considerations require context.